Sunday, 19 June 2011

Women are a Christmas cake.

There's a notorious saying about women's value that I've heard from my friend; Women are like a Christmas cake. They both are precious until 25. Christmas cake becomes more valuable up to December 25th when it is needed, but after the Christmas is passed, it's value becomes nothing and it is needed from nowhere. Women, also gets prettier and prettier until 25 and men are eager to chase after them, but after their age of 25, they start to get older and to have new wrinkles. It really is an awful metaphor to make women's value as nothing after their age of 25. Now, I have reached my age to 22 in Korea. I am 21 in Vancouver age, but next year when I go back to Korea, I have to become 23! I believe that metaphor is just a piece of rubbish and the first person to have said that statement must have said it as just a joke. However, it already has came into my brain and it occupies a small part of the brain, and whenever I think about my age, I remind of the metaphor as well. The Sunlight in Vancouver is so strong, as strong as 7 times compared to that of Korea, I got some extra freckles, and I feel that my skin isn't as good as it was in my teenage! 

Would my value drop after age of 25? I hope, and believe not. I mean, there are tons of beautiful, successful, and stunning women who are over 25! I would like to just change the metaphor that women are a Christmas present. Their value do not drop just because it is the day after the Christmas. They get more valuable and more precious as time goes by because the present is something you receive from someone who cares about you. Women might lose their youth as well as beauty because that's what is called 'natural'. However, they get wiser and more elegant, which women didn't have in their younger lives. I will not be afraid of getting old and loosing my attractiveness because I am a Christmas present. :)

7 comments:

  1. there are tons of beautiful, successful, and stunning women who are over 25!-----> such as.. ME? hahahaha

    I heard that when I was young. I totally freaked out.
    I really didn't want to get older, and wanted to stay young.

    Trust me.
    Aging is beautiful.
    If somebody can make me back to early 20's, then I would refuse to do it.

    When I turtned 30 in korean age, I was so happy. ; because the real beauty of my life just has started to show up:)

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  2. Well said, Kia! I'm very pleased you wrote this.

    I have heard the Christmas cake saying before, but it was in the context of what "they" say in Far Eastern and South Eastern countries.

    In Canada and other western countries, it's quite different. Here, people delay marriage until their forties, sometimes, and certainly until their thirties, normally.

    As for older women: well, let's just say that I have always liked older woman (and I married one!). In fact, I think that middle-aged (30s to 50s) women in Asia, in particular, are the most stunningly beautiful females on the planet, and I'm certain you will in time join their number!

    By the way, some people find a modest amount of wrinkles around the eyes quite attractive. It adds character!

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  3. Oops!--my word "woman" should be "women"--it must have been a Freudian slip, though, for I was at the moment thinking of my wife! ;-)

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  4. I prefer mature women to young girls!
    I respect all kind of women, especially those who believe they can become beutiful even if they become 50 years old!!

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  5. Hee Jung :) Sorry for such a late comment, but I hope you will have a chance to see this. You are still in Vancouver, right? I am really surprised that you would not go back to your 20s even you have an ability to do that! How about going back to one year before and enjoy Vancouver life again:)? haha. By the way, I thought Hong was your younger brother!!!!!! I heard that it's not true from Cheiu yesterday, and I was so fooled!
    P.S Yes to your first question, when I wrote that sentence, the first person that came to mind was YOU :D take care!!

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  6. Nathan :) Oh the saying was from far Eastern and South Eastern countries! I had no idea where it was said from. Thanks for the information! I will be happy to join the group 'the most stunningly beautiful females on the planet' as I grow older =).
    And such a lovely Freudian slip you made, it shows your love to your beautifully aged wife >_<!

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  7. Chieu!!! I cannot stop laughing because of you!!! LOL You prefer aged woman, but your reality girl friend is...... LOL GOOD FOR YOU ><

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